Contact After Break Up - - Strategies For Contacting Your Ex

Just lay low for at least three days so that you don't do or say anything that you might regret later. Once you ride out those few days though, you need to decide what the break up means to you.

Contact After Break Up - - Strategies For Contacting Your Ex

If your ex left you, then you might be left wondering what made you seem unworthy of keeping the relationship going. If you truly believe that your relationship should be saved then here is what you need to do next.

Write a short letter to your ex. Very briefly you state that you understand why you have parted ways, you do want your ex to be happy whether that is with you or not, and that you will back off.

A week later, whether you heard from your ex or not, send a brief email. Only a few sentences mentioning that you sincerely hope your ex is doing as well as possible, and that you are managing fairly well and are making the best of things.

If you were the one dumped then your best window of opportunity is not based on how long since you broke up, but rather have you shown that you still love your ex but you do not need him or her to be happy in the long run.



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Stages After Break Up - - What Stage Are You in?

It is helpful to recognize the most common stages after a break up.

Stages After Break Up - - What Stage Are You in?

Stage #1 -- Dazed and Confused.
The world has stopped for you. You had been spending all of your time with your ex and all of a sudden you are alone. Where do you go from here?

Stage #2 -- Angry here, Sad there.
Good riddance you say. After all, now you can do your own thing and no worries about the other half's opinion. Oh wait, maybe it was kind of great having someone to share your secrets with and sharing a warm bed wasn't bad either.

Stage #3 -- Reality Check.
You are starting to see the light but you don't really like what you see. At least the emotions are starting to wear off which is good.

Stage #4 -- Spoil Yourself.
It might be the subtle things like treating yourself to that dessert you crave or go spend time with an old friend that you have missed. Or it might be less subtle like joining a dating service or getting a make over. Your choice. The diversions might be fun but won't bring any new meaning to your life.



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